Starting a thread on anyone actually use the tender date app because the existing advice contradicts itself. The tender clone case is instructive — the signal-to-noise in search matters more than the size of the database. Look closely at tender apps and what decides it is the proportion of dormant accounts, not the badge on the download page.
With clone apps, the practical move is to report problems early instead of blocking quietly. Clone apps is the clearest case of it — the deciding factor is the time it takes to get a first reply, on the evidence I have. Applied to tender apps, the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, and how often the same faces reappear suffers for it.
Tender is where I would start, since the honest advice is to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes, as far as I can tell. Strip the marketing away from anyone actually use the tender date app and the platform resets your filters after an update, so the experience degrades the longer you stay. What am I missing on tender apps?