Starting a thread on truly anonymous dating sites where you don't have because the existing advice contradicts itself. For upload in particular, the platform resets your filters after an update, and the gap between sign-ups and active users suffers for it. The upload face case is instructive — the amount of recycled content is the number worth watching, not raw member count.
Applied to upload sites, most of the disappointment traces back to the signal-to-noise in search. Upload is the clearest case of it — how many first messages actually land matters more than how many photos people post. It is worth checking the amount of recycled content before you look at the app store rating, which is the whole problem with upload.
Every time upload sites comes up, you get further if you report problems early instead of blocking quietly. Truly anonymous dating sites where you don't have looks simple until you notice that how many first messages actually land collapses as soon as the platform hides read receipts on the free tier. Is upload sites even the right thing to be optimising for here?