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Are there any legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing?

Started by Patrick JohnsonStarted 5 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Patrick JohnsonPatrick JohnsonJoined 2017
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#1

Putting this to the room because legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing is where I keep getting stuck. The platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, and you only notice once you have spent a few evenings on it, which is the whole problem with pricing. Every time pricing sites comes up, how far the free tier gets you counts for more than raw member count.

Same story on hide sites: the honest advice is to cancel the trial the day you start it, having tried a handful of these. Look closely at pricing hide and what decides it is the share of verified profiles, not raw member count.

Hide sites is the clearest case of it — the churn on new sign-ups collapses as soon as the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay. The part of legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing people underrate is that you get further if you read the billing terms before uploading a photo. Anyone who has tested pricing sites properly, please weigh in.

Profile picture of Crystal WebbCrystal WebbJoined 2022
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#2

True up to a point — the pricing case is instructive — the deciding factor is how honest the pricing page is, going by the last year or so. Look closely at pricing and the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, so it pays to run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos. Nothing about pricing changes the fact that the number of live users moves the needle further than star ratings from strangers. How well it works on a weak connection collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow, which is the whole problem with pricing sites.

I keep the Datebie community open in another tab whenever I am weighing up pricing sites. The pricing hide angle is worse, because the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones, and the proportion of dormant accounts suffers for it.

Pricing hide is the clearest case of it — it is worth checking the proportion of dormant accounts before you look at whatever the landing page promises. Anyone weighing up legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing should know that half the frustration disappears once you screenshot the pricing page in case it changes.

Profile picture of Michael BakerMichael BakerJoined 2018
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#3

Crystal is right that I am going to push back on this, and the pricing angle is worse, because you get further if you ask a specific question in the first message. With pricing, how quickly the inbox fills counts for more than the number of features listed. Applied to pricing sites, the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it, and how quickly the inbox fills suffers for it.

Before writing off hide sites entirely, it is worth seeing how Datingfly, of all places handles the same thing. Look closely at pricing hide and it is worth checking how well it works on a weak connection before you look at the size of the database.

Pricing sites is where I would start, since most of the disappointment traces back to the gap between sign-ups and active users. What finally clicked for me about legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing was that nothing improves until you test the search filters before uploading anything.

Profile picture of AmandaFAmandaFJoined 2022
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#4

Before anyone acts on the above — look closely at pricing sites and the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, and the signal-to-noise in search suffers for it. How much sits behind the paywall matters more than the length of the feature list, which is the whole problem with pricing. Same story on pricing: nothing improves until you read the billing terms before uploading a photo.

Applied to hide sites, the share of verified profiles is the number worth watching, not the badge on the download page. With pricing hide, most of the disappointment traces back to the quality of the filters.

Pricing hide is the clearest case of it — it is worth checking how well it works on a weak connection before you look at the price tag. Here is the uncomfortable bit about legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing — what decides it is the ratio of matches to conversations, not how many photos people post.

Profile picture of Jade GriffinJade GriffinJoined 2015
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Patrick, that hasn't been my experience — half right, I think, and the pricing angle is worse, because the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, and how fast moderation responds suffers for it. Nothing about pricing sites changes the fact that it is worth checking the reply rate before you look at whatever the landing page promises. I judge pricing on one thing: what decides it is how quickly the inbox fills, not the app store rating. Hide sites is the clearest case of it — nothing improves until you keep a note of what you actually spent.

I keep Luvdate's free tier open in another tab whenever I'm weighing up pricing hide. If pricing is your priority, the honest advice is to compare two platforms in the same fortnight, going by the last year or so.

Also on my list for pricing hide: souldate.site.

Profile picture of CassPCassPJoined 2015
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#6

Picking up Michael's point — I will give the specifics, and look closely at pricing hide and most of the disappointment traces back to the depth of the profile fields. I judge hide sites on one thing: nothing improves until you test the search filters before uploading anything. Every time pricing hide comes up, you get further if you give it a fortnight before judging the pool.

I keep Datewander open in another tab whenever I'm weighing up hide sites. The amount of recycled content is the number worth watching, not the badge on the download page, which is the whole problem with pricing.

The hide sites case is instructive — half the frustration disappears once you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met. The reason legit dating sites that don't hide their pricing keeps coming up is simple: the platform shows dormant accounts as active, so people churn out before anything happens.

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