Genuine question about out of all the options from someone who's tried the obvious routes. The introverts angle is worse, because nothing improves until you report problems early instead of blocking quietly. Look closely at options sites and the deciding factor is the share of verified profiles, with the usual caveats.
Same story on introverts sites: the platform resets your filters after an update, so people churn out before anything happens. For introverts options in particular, the ratio of matches to conversations collapses as soon as the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it.
Introverts sites is where I'd start, since how much sits behind the paywall counts for more than the number of features listed. Most threads about out of all the options miss this — you get further if you cancel the trial the day you start it. Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong question about introverts.