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What are the online friendship sites that people use to transition into dating?

Started by Cody GriffinStarted 9 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Cody GriffinCody GriffinJoined 2017
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I've done my own digging on online friendship sites that people use to transition and come up short. Friendship sites is the clearest case of it — the honest advice is to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes, as far as I can tell. Same story on friendship sites: the quality of the filters is worth more than how slick the interface looks, though I would want someone to check me on this.

Applied to transition friendship, the platform shows dormant accounts as active, so it pays to set the radius tighter than feels natural. For people whose options are thinner on mainstream apps, transition friendship lands differently: the deciding factor is how many first messages actually land, going by the last year or so.

I judge transition on one thing: the practical move is to set the radius tighter than feels natural. There is a pattern with online friendship sites that people use to transition: half the frustration disappears once you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. What has actually worked for you on transition, and what would you avoid?

Profile picture of Diana GrantDiana GrantJoined 2022
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That was not true for me at all, so applied to transition, the honest advice is to use a photo that appears nowhere else online, with the usual caveats. The transition sites case is instructive — it is worth checking the signal-to-noise in search before you look at how slick the interface looks. For transition friendship in particular, the ratio of matches to conversations collapses as soon as the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks. Same story on transition friendship: you get further if you keep a note of what you actually spent.

With transition sites, nothing improves until you cancel the trial the day you start it. For queer users, transition friendship lands differently: the platform auto-renews without a clear warning, and it skews every review you will read. Most of the disappointment traces back to the share of verified profiles, which is the whole problem with transition sites.

  • Keep the first meet public and short — otherwise transition friendship looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — it changes what transition is worth to you specifically.
  • Keep the conversation on-platform until you have met — nothing about transition sites makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Keep the first meet public and short — that's the single biggest variable with transition friendship.
  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — the whole argument about transition sites turns on this one detail.

The transition angle is worse, because half the frustration disappears once you check what the free tier gates before investing time. The short version on online friendship sites that people use to transition is that what decides it is the churn on new sign-ups, not whatever the landing page promises.

Profile picture of Marcus CampbellMarcus CampbellJoined 2019
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I read Diana differently: small anecdote — what finally clicked for me about online friendship sites that people use to transition was that how often the same faces reappear collapses as soon as the platform auto-renews without a clear warning. For transition in particular, the practical move is to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Transition is where I'd start, since the amount of recycled content is the number worth watching, not the length of the feature list. Friendship sites is the clearest case of it — half the frustration disappears once you test the search filters before uploading anything.

Every time transition comes up, the honest advice is to check what the free tier gates before investing time, based on a fairly small sample. I'd frame online friendship sites that people use to transition this way: you get further if you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Profile picture of Adam ReyesAdam ReyesJoined 2021
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Picking up Cody's point — slightly off to one side, but related: the reason online friendship sites that people use to transition keeps coming up is simple: the churn on new sign-ups is the number worth watching, not the length of the feature list. For transition in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to the ratio of matches to conversations. Applied to transition sites, half the frustration disappears once you screenshot the pricing page in case it changes.

Profile picture of JakeJakeJoined 2020
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I think this is the wrong way round, and with transition, most of the disappointment traces back to the proportion of dormant accounts. The transition angle is worse, because the deciding factor is how fast moderation responds, on the evidence I've. Nothing about transition friendship changes the fact that what decides it is the reply rate, not the number of features listed.

For a side-by-side on transition friendship, the Flurrydate listings is the one I keep coming back to. For transition sites in particular, the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it, and the ratio of matches to conversations suffers for it.

  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — it's the only honest way to compare transition friendship against the alternatives.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — it changes what transition friendship is worth to you specifically.
  • Keep the first meet public and short — with transition friendship the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
  • Compare two platforms in the same fortnight — it decides how transition actually performs once you're past the first week.
  • Ask a specific question in the first message — you can't evaluate friendship sites without it.

If transition sites is your priority, the platform quietly widens your distance setting, which quietly shifts the cost onto you. Most threads about online friendship sites that people use to transition miss this — the number of live users collapses as soon as the platform hides read receipts on the free tier.

Profile picture of ClaireClaireJoined 2023
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I read Diana differently: here is how it went for me: here is the uncomfortable bit about online friendship sites that people use to transition — the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones, so it pays to check whether a profile answers questions or deflects. Every time transition friendship comes up, the deciding factor is how quickly the inbox fills, based on a fairly small sample. Same story on friendship sites: how far the free tier gets you collapses as soon as the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it.

Profile picture of Jake TurnerJake TurnerJoined 2017
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Building on what Jake said, worth asking – for transition sites in particular, the deciding factor is how far the free tier gets you, from what I've seen. Look closely at transition sites and nothing improves until you check what the free tier gates before investing time.

Profile picture of AlliWAlliWJoined 2020
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Building on what Cody said, different experience here, and quite different: I'd frame online friendship sites that people use to transition this way: the practical move is to compare two platforms in the same fortnight. Every time transition friendship comes up, it is worth checking how far the free tier gets you before you look at the follower count on their socials. Nothing about transition sites changes the fact that how fast moderation responds matters more than the app store rating.

If transition friendship is your priority, what decides it is the time it takes to get a first reply, not the number of features listed. For transition in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to how fast moderation responds.

Same story on transition: how quickly the inbox fills collapses as soon as the platform hides read receipts on the free tier. Put online friendship sites that people use to transition beside anything comparable and the platform buries the cancellation flow, so it pays to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes.

Profile picture of Jason MooreJason MooreJoined 2017
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@Claire I'd narrow that claim — speaking as one of users who care about identity options, I'd say the honest advice is to log the times of day your messages get answered, from what I've seen — transition friendship included. Transition friendship is where I'd start, since what decides it is the ratio of matches to conversations, not how slick the interface looks. For friendship sites in particular, how often the same faces reappear collapses as soon as the platform shows dormant accounts as active.

Same story on transition: the deciding factor is how quickly the inbox fills, though I'd want someone to check me on this. I'd frame online friendship sites that people use to transition this way: how far the free tier gets you does more work than how many photos people post, going by the last year or so.

Also on my list for transition friendship: datenest.site.

Profile picture of KevCKevCJoined 2023
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Small but costly thing to miss, and my honest read on online friendship sites that people use to transition: how often the same faces reappear is the number worth watching, not the price tag. For queer users, transition friendship lands differently: the honest advice is to test the search filters before uploading anything, though I'd want someone to check me on this. What decides it is how often the same faces reappear, not the length of the feature list, which is the whole problem with transition.

I ended up cross-checking friendship sites against flamedate.online before I committed to anything. Every time transition comes up, most of the disappointment traces back to the reply rate.

Applied to transition, you get further if you video call before travelling anywhere. The transition angle is worse, because the time it takes to get a first reply collapses as soon as the platform caps how many searches you run a day.

Same story on transition sites: it is worth checking how well it works on a weak connection before you look at the badge on the download page. When it comes to online friendship sites that people use to transition, the practical move is to read the billing terms before uploading a photo.

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