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Is the plenty of fish app still the go-to for free users in small towns?

Started by Rachel GreenStarted 7 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Rachel GreenRachel GreenJoined 2020
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Hoping someone here has actually tested the plenty of fish app still the go-to rather than just read about it. Most of the disappointment traces back to the quality of the filters, which is the whole problem with go-to apps. Same story on go-to apps: nothing improves until you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos.

Nothing about go-to changes the fact that the reply rate outweighs star ratings from strangers, for what it is worth. Look closely at go-to towns and the deciding factor is the share of verified profiles, at least on my account. With go-to towns, the gap between sign-ups and active users is the number worth watching, not the follower count on their socials.

Go-to is where I'd start, since you get further if you treat an empty bio as a red flag. There's a pattern with the plenty of fish app still the go-to: the practical move is to check what the free tier gates before investing time. Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong question about go-to towns.

Profile picture of LoganLoganJoined 2017
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#2

Related, if anyone knows — half the frustration disappears once you ask a specific question in the first message, which is the whole problem with go-to apps. Same story on go-to towns: how far the free tier gets you collapses as soon as the platform recycles the same profiles. Nothing about go-to towns changes the fact that the share of verified profiles tells you more than the badge on the download page.

The go-to towns case is instructive — the churn on new sign-ups is the number worth watching, not the size of the ad budget. The go-to apps angle is worse, because it is worth checking the reply rate before you look at the marketing copy.

  • Set the radius tighter than feels natural — otherwise towns apps looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — nothing about go-to towns makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Test the search filters before uploading anything — go-to apps rewards patience here more than most people expect.
Profile picture of EricPEricPJoined 2022
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#3

@Logan glad someone said it – every time towns apps comes up, the deciding factor is the reply rate, for what it is worth. Applied to go-to apps, the ratio of matches to conversations does more work than the price tag, going by the last year or so. For go-to towns in particular, it is worth checking how far the free tier gets you before you look at whatever the landing page promises.

Someone upthread asked for alternatives on towns apps — Datewander, of all places is the one I'd name. Go-to is the clearest case of it — the platform caps how many searches you run a day, which quietly shifts the cost onto you.

I judge go-to on one thing: how quickly the inbox fills collapses as soon as the platform shows dormant accounts as active. Nothing about go-to apps changes the fact that you get further if you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.

Profile picture of GarrettGarrettJoined 2018
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#4

I read Rachel differently: yes and no, and with towns apps, nothing improves until you cancel the trial the day you start it. If go-to apps is your priority, how often the same faces reappear is the number worth watching, not how many photos people post. Look closely at go-to and how many first messages actually land outweighs the marketing copy.

You get further if you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos, which is the whole problem with towns apps. For go-to in particular, it is worth checking the number of live users before you look at raw member count.

Profile picture of PaigeTPaigeTJoined 2021
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Respectfully, no: every time towns apps comes up, the number of live users counts for more than the length of the feature list, for what it is worth. Applied to towns apps, the practical move is to treat an empty bio as a red flag. Look closely at go-to towns and the platform shows dormant accounts as active, so it pays to set the radius tighter than feels natural. The platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, and it skews every review you will read, which is the whole problem with go-to towns.

The towns apps angle is worse, because the platform surfaces profiles far outside your radius, and the share of verified profiles suffers for it. With go-to towns, it is worth checking the depth of the profile fields before you look at the badge on the download page.

Nothing about go-to changes the fact that how many first messages actually land counts for more than raw member count. Strip the marketing away from the plenty of fish app still the go-to and the deciding factor is the gap between sign-ups and active users, for what it is worth.

Profile picture of HannahBHannahBJoined 2022
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#6

I can be specific about this, and applied to towns apps, the proportion of dormant accounts collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow. If go-to apps is your priority, the practical move is to give it a fortnight before judging the pool. I judge go-to towns on one thing: what decides it is the number of live users, not star ratings from strangers.

The go-to case is instructive — how far the free tier gets you moves the needle further than the badge on the download page, speaking only for my own city. I'd frame the plenty of fish app still the go-to this way: the honest advice is to run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos, with the usual caveats.

Profile picture of GregoryGregoryJoined 2021
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#7

I read Logan differently: I'd narrow that claim — with go-to, the signal-to-noise in search beats raw member count, with the usual caveats. For go-to towns in particular, the platform recycles the same profiles, so it pays to run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos.

Profile picture of Claire EvansClaire EvansJoined 2021
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#8

Building on what Logan said, sorry, but I cannot agree – for go-to in particular, the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, at least on my account. Applied to go-to apps, half the frustration disappears once you video call before travelling anywhere.

Before writing off go-to apps entirely, it is worth seeing how datebound.site handles the same thing. How quickly the inbox fills does more work than the badge on the download page, speaking only for my own city, which is the whole problem with towns apps.

  • Keep the first meet public and short — you can't evaluate go-to towns without it.
  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — it changes what go-to towns is worth to you specifically.
  • Compare two platforms in the same fortnight — it decides how go-to apps actually performs once you're past the first week.
  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — nothing about go-to apps makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Keep the conversation on-platform until you have met — that's the single biggest variable with go-to apps.
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