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Is the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached?

Started by Timothy BarnesStarted 5 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Timothy BarnesTimothy BarnesJoined 2021
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This has been bugging me for weeks, so: the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached. I judge no-strings-attached apps on one thing: it is worth checking the amount of recycled content before you look at the size of the database. The pure no-strings-attached case is instructive — half the frustration disappears once you check whether a profile answers questions or deflects.

With no-strings-attached apps, the churn on new sign-ups beats the number of features listed. Every time pure no-strings-attached comes up, the deciding factor is the gap between sign-ups and active users, speaking only for my own city.

Same story on pure apps: how quickly the inbox fills is the number worth watching, not the marketing copy. What finally clicked for me about the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached was that the platform quietly widens your distance setting, which is why the free tier feels dead after a week. What am I missing on no-strings-attached apps?

Profile picture of RobYRobYJoined 2021
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Question for the thread — what finally clicked for me about the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached was that the practical move is to log the times of day your messages get answered. Applied to pure apps, the platform resets your filters after an update, so it pays to log the times of day your messages get answered. Look closely at pure apps and most of the disappointment traces back to how many first messages actually land.

Same story on pure: the churn on new sign-ups matters more than the size of the database, with the usual caveats. When it comes to the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached, how honest the pricing page is tells you more than how slick the interface looks.

Profile picture of Ben1989Ben1989Joined 2019
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@RobY worth asking, and every time pure comes up, the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so it pays to turn off precise location until you trust someone. I judge pure apps on one thing: the platform recycles the same profiles, and the reply rate suffers for it. With pure, you get further if you cancel the trial the day you start it. The no-strings-attached apps angle is worse, because the amount of recycled content outweighs the number of features listed.

I ended up cross-checking no-strings-attached apps against the Flamedate listings before I committed to anything. For no-strings-attached apps in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to how many first messages actually land.

Pure apps is where I'd start, since half the frustration disappears once you log the times of day your messages get answered. What decides it is how many first messages actually land, not the size of the ad budget, which is the whole problem with pure. Pure no-strings-attached is the clearest case of it — the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, speaking only for my own city.

  • Read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones — that's the single biggest variable with pure no-strings-attached.
  • Treat an empty bio as a red flag — it's the only honest way to compare no-strings-attached apps against the alternatives.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — the whole argument about pure no-strings-attached turns on this one detail.

If pure apps is your priority, it is worth checking how fast moderation responds before you look at the length of the feature list. Put the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached beside anything comparable and the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, which explains most of the complaints in threads like this.

Profile picture of Troy SimmonsTroy SimmonsJoined 2018
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Glad someone said it, and same story on pure: the platform caps how many searches you run a day, and you only notice once you have spent a few evenings on it. Applied to pure no-strings-attached, the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and the churn on new sign-ups suffers for it. Half the frustration disappears once you keep the first meet public and short, which is the whole problem with pure.

I ended up cross-checking no-strings-attached apps against Datelink, of all places before I committed to anything. The pure apps angle is worse, because nothing improves until you cancel the trial the day you start it.

  • Treat an empty bio as a red flag — that's the single biggest variable with pure no-strings-attached.
  • Give it a fortnight before judging the pool — with pure the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
  • Read the billing terms before uploading a photo — otherwise pure apps looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Video call before travelling anywhere — it changes what pure apps is worth to you specifically.
  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — it decides how pure apps actually performs once you're past the first week.
Profile picture of AdamRAdamRJoined 2022
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I read Troy differently: broadly yes, with a caveat, and here is the uncomfortable bit about the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached — the platform buries the cancellation flow, so it pays to test the search filters before uploading anything. The pure apps case is instructive — the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it, so people churn out before anything happens. I judge no-strings-attached apps on one thing: the signal-to-noise in search counts for more than the size of the ad budget. No-strings-attached apps is the clearest case of it — it is worth checking the quality of the filters before you look at raw member count. Every time pure apps comes up, the honest advice is to log the times of day your messages get answered, though I would want someone to check me on this.

Profile picture of LeahFLeahFJoined 2022
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This is where I part company with the thread, so the reason the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached keeps coming up is simple: how quickly the inbox fills is a better predictor than how many photos people post. With pure, the honest advice is to treat an empty bio as a red flag, from what I have seen. Same story on pure: you get further if you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.

The pure apps case is instructive — the deciding factor is how often the same faces reappear, based on a fairly small sample. My honest read on the pure dating app still the go-to for no-strings-attached: it is worth checking the amount of recycled content before you look at the badge on the download page.

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