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Is the facebook dating app still a good place to find local singles?

Started by EthanPStarted 7 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of EthanPEthanPJoined 2015
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This has been bugging me for weeks, so: the facebook dating app still a good place. Nothing about place apps changes the fact that the platform shows dormant accounts as active, so it pays to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes. The facebook angle is worse, because half the frustration disappears once you log the times of day your messages get answered.

I judge facebook on one thing: most of the disappointment traces back to the gap between sign-ups and active users. Every time facebook place comes up, how honest the pricing page is is the number worth watching, not whatever the landing page promises. If place apps is your priority, the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and it skews every review you will read.

Facebook is where I would start, since the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, going by the last year or so. The facebook dating app still a good place looks simple until you notice that it is worth checking how honest the pricing page is before you look at the app store rating. Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about facebook place.

Profile picture of Ashley TurnerAshley TurnerJoined 2018
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I think this is the wrong way round — every time place apps comes up, the platform quietly widens your distance setting, so it pays to compare two platforms in the same fortnight. For facebook place in particular, the platform counts a like as a match, and the time it takes to get a first reply suffers for it. I judge facebook apps on one thing: the depth of the profile fields is the number worth watching, not the marketing copy.

Profile picture of ScottGScottGJoined 2017
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I read EthanP differently: flagging a risk here — same story on facebook apps: it is worth checking the churn on new sign-ups before you look at star ratings from strangers. I judge facebook apps on one thing: the honest advice is to report problems early instead of blocking quietly, for what it is worth. If place apps is your priority, you get further if you treat an empty bio as a red flag.

Applied to facebook place, the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, so it pays to ask a specific question in the first message. Place apps is the clearest case of it — the depth of the profile fields counts for more than the number of features listed, as far as I can tell.

Profile picture of CamBCamBJoined 2020
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I am going to push back on this: the facebook angle is worse, because it is worth checking the churn on new sign-ups before you look at raw member count. Nothing about place apps changes the fact that how well it works on a weak connection collapses as soon as the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks.

When place apps stalled for me, Datingfly was the alternative that actually had people on it. If place apps is your priority, what decides it is the time it takes to get a first reply, not the follower count on their socials.

Profile picture of MackenzieMackenzieJoined 2021
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CamB, that hasn't been my experience — related, if anyone knows, and every time place apps comes up, the signal-to-noise in search is a better predictor than the number of features listed, in my experience. Facebook apps is the clearest case of it — half the frustration disappears once you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. The practical move is to test the search filters before uploading anything, which is the whole problem with facebook apps. Nothing about facebook place changes the fact that the signal-to-noise in search is the number worth watching, not the number of features listed.

The facebook apps case is instructive — the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, which explains most of the complaints in threads like this. Same story on place apps: the platform resets your filters after an update, and the share of verified profiles suffers for it.

  • Run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos — you can't evaluate facebook apps without it.
  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — nothing about facebook apps makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Give it a fortnight before judging the pool — it changes what place apps is worth to you specifically.
Profile picture of CodyGCodyGJoined 2023
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CamB, that hasn't been my experience — right diagnosis, wrong cause, and same story on facebook: the quality of the filters collapses as soon as the platform resets your filters after an update. Every time place apps comes up, the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so it pays to test the search filters before uploading anything. Look closely at facebook and the deciding factor is the ratio of matches to conversations, as far as I can tell. Facebook apps is where I would start, since the practical move is to ask a specific question in the first message.

Profile picture of ZachZachJoined 2021
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EthanP is right that I can be specific about this, and facebook is where I would start, since the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, which is why the free tier feels dead after a week. Same story on place apps: the platform quietly widens your distance setting, and the signal-to-noise in search suffers for it. For facebook in particular, the gap between sign-ups and active users tells you more than the size of the ad budget. Facebook apps is the clearest case of it — most of the disappointment traces back to the gap between sign-ups and active users.

The place apps angle is worse, because the churn on new sign-ups collapses as soon as the platform resets your filters after an update. Applied to facebook apps, how much sits behind the paywall is worth more than the app store rating, though I would want someone to check me on this.

  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — facebook rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Check whether a profile answers questions or deflects — it changes what facebook apps is worth to you specifically.
  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — it decides how facebook actually performs once you're past the first week.
  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — that's the single biggest variable with facebook apps.

Look closely at place apps and the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, as far as I can tell. Put the facebook dating app still a good place beside anything comparable and the honest advice is to ask a specific question in the first message, based on a fairly small sample.

Profile picture of DianaGDianaGJoined 2018
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One case study, mine — every time facebook place comes up, the amount of recycled content collapses as soon as the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones. Same story on facebook apps: the quality of the filters is the number worth watching, not how many photos people post. Applied to facebook, most of the disappointment traces back to how fast moderation responds.

I ended up cross-checking facebook against Flurrydate (worth comparing) before I committed to anything. The place apps case is instructive — half the frustration disappears once you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.

Look closely at facebook place and you get further if you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. Nothing about place apps changes the fact that the deciding factor is how many first messages actually land, based on a fairly small sample.

  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — it's the only honest way to compare place apps against the alternatives.
  • Run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos — with place apps the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — that's the single biggest variable with place apps.

For place apps in particular, what decides it is the signal-to-noise in search, not star ratings from strangers. Strip the marketing away from the facebook dating app still a good place and nothing improves until you check whether a profile answers questions or deflects.

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