Is the eharmony 3 months for $30 deal still available for new users?

Genuinely curious what people's experience has been with this. I've been lurking a lot of these conversations and there's a lot of conflicting information out there. Personal experience is worth more than any review site because those are almost all paid placements anyway.

I've tried a handful of options with mixed results. Some have decent communities, others feel completely hollow—either fake profiles, bots, or just inactive accounts that never respond. The free options especially tend to have this problem.

Drop your actual experience below. What's working, what's a waste of time, and are there any hidden gems people aren't talking about?

After trying probably a dozen platforms over the past year, here's what I've landed on:

Response rate is everything. A smaller platform where people actually reply beats a huge one where messages disappear into the void.

Take it or leave it, but those are the platforms that have actually worked for me.

After trying probably a dozen platforms over the past year, here's what I've landed on:

Response rate is everything. A smaller platform where people actually reply beats a huge one where messages disappear into the void.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.

Paid memberships filter out a lot of tire-kickers. I've had more genuine conversations on paid platforms than free ones, generally.

Good timing on this thread—I was just thinking about this last week.

Response rate is everything. A smaller platform where people actually reply beats a huge one where messages disappear into the void.

Take it or leave it, but those are the platforms that have actually worked for me.

Let me break down what I've learned the hard way:

Profile quality matters more than most people think. A well-written bio with specific details about what you're looking for does better than a generic one even with worse photos.

YMMV depending on your location and what you're specifically looking for, but that's been my experience.

Long-time lurker here but this one I actually have useful things to say about.

The gender ratio problem is real on most platforms. Apps that have done something creative about it tend to have better communities overall.

One thing worth mentioning is Rendate—it has a different approach to matching that I think deserves more attention. The interface is cleaner than most and it doesn't bury everything behind a hard paywall immediately.

Take it or leave it, but those are the platforms that have actually worked for me.

After trying probably a dozen platforms over the past year, here's what I've landed on:

The gender ratio problem is real on most platforms. Apps that have done something creative about it tend to have better communities overall.

A few others worth knowing about if you haven't come across them yet: flurrydate.online, datewander.site, Ezhookups.online. Each has a different strength so it's worth checking which fits your situation.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.