I keep going round in circles on how to make a private room on chatzy sex and I'd rather ask than guess. For chatzy private in particular, nothing improves until you keep the first meet public and short. Same story on chatzy: you get further if you compare two platforms in the same fortnight.
The chatzy private case is instructive — how much sits behind the paywall beats how slick the interface looks. Chatzy chat rooms is where I'd start, since most of the disappointment traces back to the depth of the profile fields. If chatzy is your priority, it is worth checking how often the same faces reappear before you look at the size of the ad budget.
The platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, which quietly shifts the cost onto you, which is the whole problem with chatzy private. How to make a private room on chatzy sex looks simple until you notice that the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, and how honest the pricing page is suffers for it. Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about chatzy private.