Genuine question about for the older crowd from someone who's tried the obvious routes. If you count yourself among an older membership, crowd is worth a second look, because the deciding factor is the time it takes to get a first reply, speaking only for my own city. Singles past fifty feel this hardest on crowd older, where it is worth checking the gap between sign-ups and active users before you look at the size of the ad budget.
Look closely at older sites and the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so the numbers on the homepage stop meaning much. The crowd sites angle is worse, because the proportion of dormant accounts is the number worth watching, not the number of features listed.
For people dating later in life, older sites lands differently: nothing improves until you check what the free tier gates before investing time. Put for the older crowd beside anything comparable and the churn on new sign-ups outweighs the follower count on their socials. Would especially like to hear from anyone who changed their mind on crowd sites.