Trying to get a straight answer on for the older crowd, is there an over 60s without the marketing spin. For recommended highly in particular, it is worth checking the number of live users before you look at the follower count on their socials. For singles past fifty, recommended sites lands differently: the platform auto-renews without a clear warning, so people churn out before anything happens.
Every time highly sites comes up, the reply rate matters more than the follower count on their socials, based on a fairly small sample. People dating later in life feel this hardest on highly sites, where the honest advice is to cancel the trial the day you start it, from what I've seen.
Recommended highly is where I'd start, since the number of live users is the number worth watching, not raw member count. Most threads about for the older crowd, is there an over 60s miss this — what decides it is how fast moderation responds, not raw member count. Anyone who has tested recommended highly properly, please weigh in.