Is there a dedicated divorce dating site that is actually good?

Genuinely curious what people's experience has been with this. I've been lurking a lot of these conversations and there's a lot of conflicting information out there. Personal experience is worth more than any review site because those are almost all paid placements anyway.

I've tried a handful of options with mixed results. Some have decent communities, others feel completely hollow—either fake profiles, bots, or just inactive accounts that never respond. The free options especially tend to have this problem.

Drop your actual experience below. What's working, what's a waste of time, and are there any hidden gems people aren't talking about?

After trying probably a dozen platforms over the past year, here's what I've landed on:

Response rate is everything. A smaller platform where people actually reply beats a huge one where messages disappear into the void.

Take it or leave it, but those are the platforms that have actually worked for me.

Honestly the best filtering is just time—bots don't bother with real back-and-forth conversation. If they can answer a couple of specific questions naturally, there's probably a person there.

Came across Souldate recently—worth a look.

Good timing on this thread—I was just thinking about this last week.

Profile quality matters more than most people think. A well-written bio with specific details about what you're looking for does better than a generic one even with worse photos.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.

The bot problem is genuinely out of control right now. You have to be pretty patient to sort through the noise on most free platforms.

Also worth noting: flurrydate.online.

Speaking from experience on this one:

Profile quality matters more than most people think. A well-written bio with specific details about what you're looking for does better than a generic one even with worse photos.

One thing worth mentioning is Datewander—it has a different approach to matching that I think deserves more attention. The interface is cleaner than most and it doesn't bury everything behind a hard paywall immediately.

YMMV depending on your location and what you're specifically looking for, but that's been my experience.

Speaking from experience on this one:

Video verification before meeting anyone in person is non-negotiable at this point. Ten minutes on a live call tells you more than a week of texting.

That's my take anyway—curious if others have had different results.