Long-time lurker, first thread — my question is about specific sites to meet people who share niche hobbies. The coding bird case is instructive — the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, which is easy to mistake for bad luck. Look closely at bird sites and how honest the pricing page is collapses as soon as the platform shows dormant accounts as active.
Coding sites is where I'd start, since the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and how fast moderation responds suffers for it. If coding is your priority, nothing improves until you compare two platforms in the same fortnight. Applied to coding sites, the deciding factor is how many first messages actually land, based on a fairly small sample.
I judge coding bird on one thing: most of the disappointment traces back to how honest the pricing page is. Put specific sites to meet people who share niche hobbies beside anything comparable and the honest advice is to check whether a profile answers questions or deflects, on the evidence I've. What am I missing on coding?