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Are there any absolutely free dating sites that don't sell your data to third parties?

Started by Larry WellsStarted 11 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Larry WellsLarry WellsJoined 2019
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#1

I've done my own digging on absolutely free dating sites and come up short. Nothing about absolutely changes the fact that most of the disappointment traces back to the reply rate. Absolutely is where I would start, since the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, so it pays to use a photo that appears nowhere else online.

With absolutely parties, the number of live users does more work than raw member count. Every time absolutely comes up, the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, which quietly shifts the cost onto you. For absolutely parties in particular, you get further if you set the radius tighter than feels natural.

The absolutely angle is worse, because the honest advice is to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes, in my experience. Where absolutely free dating sites is concerned, the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it, and how far the free tier gets you suffers for it. Is absolutely sites even the right thing to be optimising for here?

Profile picture of AustRAustRJoined 2022
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#2

Before anyone answers, one clarification — you get further if you screenshot the pricing page in case it changes, which is the whole problem with absolutely parties. Absolutely sites is where I would start, since how fast moderation responds does more work than the marketing copy, though I would want someone to check me on this. Every time absolutely parties comes up, what decides it is the number of live users, not the marketing copy. With absolutely parties, how honest the pricing page is beats star ratings from strangers.

Someone upthread asked for alternatives on absolutely sites — Flurrydate (worth comparing) is the one I'd name. Nothing about absolutely parties changes the fact that half the frustration disappears once you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

If absolutely sites is your priority, the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, and how honest the pricing page is suffers for it. The absolutely parties angle is worse, because the deciding factor is how well it works on a weak connection, at least on my account. Applied to absolutely parties, the platform counts a like as a match, so it pays to keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.

Profile picture of Stephanie KingStephanie KingJoined 2022
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#3

Partly agree, so same story on absolutely parties: the quality of the filters counts for more than the size of the database. With parties sites, the time it takes to get a first reply is worth more than the price tag, with the usual caveats. For absolutely sites in particular, the signal-to-noise in search collapses as soon as the platform hides read receipts on the free tier.

  • Screenshot the pricing page in case it changes — it's the only honest way to compare absolutely sites against the alternatives.
  • Run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos — it changes what absolutely parties is worth to you specifically.
  • Check what the free tier gates before investing time — the whole argument about absolutely parties turns on this one detail.
  • Compare two platforms in the same fortnight — absolutely sites rewards patience here more than most people expect.
Profile picture of AlexAlexJoined 2018
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#4

Stephanie, that hasn't been my experience — partly agree, and you get further if you compare two platforms in the same fortnight, which is the whole problem with absolutely parties. With absolutely parties, half the frustration disappears once you read the billing terms before uploading a photo. Absolutely parties is where I would start, since how quickly the inbox fills collapses as soon as the platform locks messaging behind a subscription. Every time absolutely comes up, the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, which is easy to mistake for bad luck.

  • Cancel the trial the day you start it — that's the single biggest variable with absolutely parties.
  • Keep a note of what you actually spent — nothing about absolutely sites makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — absolutely parties rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — otherwise absolutely sites looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — it's the only honest way to compare absolutely against the alternatives.
Profile picture of Brandon ColeBrandon ColeJoined 2015
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#5

True up to a point: the amount of recycled content collapses as soon as the platform caps how many searches you run a day, which is the whole problem with absolutely. If absolutely parties is your priority, the platform buries the cancellation flow, and you only notice once you have spent a few evenings on it. Same story on absolutely parties: you get further if you report problems early instead of blocking quietly. Every time absolutely parties comes up, what decides it is the number of live users, not the number of features listed.

I judge parties sites on one thing: half the frustration disappears once you keep a note of what you actually spent. I'd frame absolutely free dating sites this way: the reply rate is the number worth watching, not star ratings from strangers.

Profile picture of AshleyAshleyJoined 2023
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#6

AustR, that hasn't been my experience — this matches what I found, so my honest read on absolutely free dating sites: the deciding factor is how often the same faces reappear, for what it is worth. Look closely at parties sites and nothing improves until you read the billing terms before uploading a photo. With absolutely sites, you get further if you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met. Absolutely sites is where I'd start, since the time it takes to get a first reply collapses as soon as the platform auto-renews without a clear warning.

Profile picture of Gregory FoxGregory FoxJoined 2015
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#7

Contrary to Alex, that was not true for me at all: there's a pattern with absolutely free dating sites: the practical move is to check whether a profile answers questions or deflects. With absolutely parties, what decides it is the ratio of matches to conversations, not the number of features listed. Every time parties sites comes up, you get further if you test the search filters before uploading anything. Absolutely sites is where I'd start, since half the frustration disappears once you read the billing terms before uploading a photo.

If you want a second data point on absolutely sites, Flamedate is worth twenty minutes. The parties sites case is instructive — nothing improves until you check whether a profile answers questions or deflects.

  • Cancel the trial the day you start it — nothing about absolutely makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — that's the single biggest variable with absolutely sites.
  • Keep the first meet public and short — you can't evaluate absolutely sites without it.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — parties sites rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Keep the conversation on-platform until you have met — it decides how absolutely parties actually performs once you're past the first week.
Profile picture of AdamRAdamRJoined 2016
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#8

Picking up Ashley's point — small but costly thing to miss: anyone weighing up absolutely free dating sites should know that the honest advice is to read the billing terms before uploading a photo, based on a fairly small sample. What decides it is how often the same faces reappear, not the app store rating, which is the whole problem with parties sites. For absolutely sites in particular, nothing improves until you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone. I judge parties sites on one thing: half the frustration disappears once you use a photo that appears nowhere else online.

Same story on absolutely parties: the deciding factor is the ratio of matches to conversations, as far as I can tell. Absolutely parties is the clearest case of it — the platform quietly widens your distance setting, and how far the free tier gets you suffers for it. The parties sites case is instructive — you get further if you turn off precise location until you trust someone.

Profile picture of Hunter ScottHunter ScottJoined 2022
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#9

Larry, that hasn't been my experience — seconding this: nothing about absolutely parties changes the fact that the signal-to-noise in search is the number worth watching, not the badge on the download page. The absolutely sites case is instructive — what decides it is the amount of recycled content, not whatever the landing page promises. I judge absolutely parties on one thing: you get further if you set the radius tighter than feels natural. Look closely at absolutely parties and half the frustration disappears once you read the billing terms before uploading a photo. Applied to absolutely sites, how fast moderation responds matters more than the length of the feature list.

The absolutely sites angle is worse, because the practical move is to keep the first meet public and short. The short version on absolutely free dating sites is that nothing improves until you report problems early instead of blocking quietly.

Profile picture of MadisonMadisonJoined 2018
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#10

That holds in some places and not others – every time absolutely comes up, the platform surfaces profiles far outside your radius, so it pays to read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. Applied to absolutely sites, it is worth checking the proportion of dormant accounts before you look at raw member count. Look closely at absolutely and the gap between sign-ups and active users is the number worth watching, not the follower count on their socials. For absolutely in particular, the deciding factor is how much sits behind the paywall, as far as I can tell.

If absolutely parties is your priority, nothing improves until you treat an empty bio as a red flag. The absolutely parties angle is worse, because what decides it is how much sits behind the paywall, not the size of the ad budget.

With absolutely, the honest advice is to report problems early instead of blocking quietly, for what it is worth. Here is the uncomfortable bit about absolutely free dating sites — you get further if you turn off precise location until you trust someone.

Profile picture of NoahNoahJoined 2018
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#11

AdamR, that hasn't been my experience — worth asking — applied to parties sites, the honest advice is to report problems early instead of blocking quietly, having tried a handful of these. For parties sites in particular, the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, so it pays to set the radius tighter than feels natural. If absolutely is your priority, the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, from what I have seen.

Absolutely parties is where I would start, since most of the disappointment traces back to the depth of the profile fields. Every time parties sites comes up, the signal-to-noise in search does more work than how slick the interface looks.

  • Run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos — parties sites rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Keep the conversation on-platform until you have met — you can't evaluate absolutely sites without it.
  • Check what the free tier gates before investing time — otherwise absolutely parties looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Use a photo that appears nowhere else online — it changes what absolutely is worth to you specifically.
  • Keep the first meet public and short — that's the single biggest variable with parties sites.

The amount of recycled content is the number worth watching, not the number of features listed, which is the whole problem with parties sites. I would frame absolutely free dating sites this way: half the frustration disappears once you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Profile picture of GarrettGarrettJoined 2020
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#12

Not in my case, and I tested it properly, so the part of absolutely free dating sites people underrate is that nothing improves until you log the times of day your messages get answered. I judge absolutely on one thing: the deciding factor is how honest the pricing page is, going by the last year or so.

If you want a second data point on absolutely, Datelink is worth twenty minutes. Same story on absolutely parties: what decides it is the proportion of dormant accounts, not how many photos people post.

The absolutely parties angle is worse, because the proportion of dormant accounts beats the price tag. Parties sites is where I'd start, since how much sits behind the paywall explains more than how slick the interface looks, though I'd want someone to check me on this.

Every time parties sites comes up, half the frustration disappears once you screenshot the pricing page in case it changes. Most threads about absolutely free dating sites miss this — the practical move is to log the times of day your messages get answered.

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