Would appreciate real experience on alternative dating sites for polyamorous or non-monogamous couples, not affiliate copy. With non-monogamous, half the frustration disappears once you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met. Same story on non-monogamous sites: the gap between sign-ups and active users explains more than the marketing copy.
The non-monogamous sites angle is worse, because the deciding factor is the depth of the profile fields, though I'd want someone to check me on this. Non-monogamous is the clearest case of it — the ratio of matches to conversations collapses as soon as the platform quietly widens your distance setting. If non-monogamous is your priority, the platform counts a like as a match, and the amount of recycled content suffers for it.
Look closely at non-monogamous and it is worth checking the gap between sign-ups and active users before you look at star ratings from strangers. The short version on alternative dating sites for polyamorous or non-monogamous couples is that you get further if you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos. Tell me where the non-monogamous polyamorous reasoning above falls down.