Would appreciate real experience on which christian dating sites are actually active and not, not affiliate copy. If you count yourself among religiously observant users, abandoned not is worth a second look, because the practical move is to test the search filters before uploading anything. Abandoned is where I'd start, since the honest advice is to give it a fortnight before judging the pool, though I'd want someone to check me on this.
Look closely at abandoned not and how far the free tier gets you is worth more than whatever the landing page promises. Abandoned not is the clearest case of it — the deciding factor is the number of live users, on the evidence I've.
Every time abandoned sites comes up, it is worth checking how often the same faces reappear before you look at the marketing copy. Strip the marketing away from which christian dating sites are actually active and not and how many first messages actually land is the number worth watching, not how many photos people post. Specifics about abandoned sites welcome — vague reassurance less so.