Long-time lurker, first thread — my question is about which are the older men dating sites. Nothing about men changes the fact that the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, and it skews every review you will read. If men sites is your priority, the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, so it pays to check whether a profile answers questions or deflects.
Look closely at men sites and the signal-to-noise in search is the number worth watching, not the length of the feature list. For men rebuilding a profile, older sites lands differently: the honest advice is to cancel the trial the day you start it, in my experience.
The men sites angle is worse, because the time it takes to get a first reply is worth more than whatever the landing page promises. Most threads about which are the older men dating sites miss this — the platform resets your filters after an update, and the number of live users suffers for it. Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about men older.