Starting a thread on where to find dirty chat partners because the existing advice contradicts itself. If dirty chat rooms is your priority, the honest advice is to give it a fortnight before judging the pool, from what I've seen. The partners dirty angle is worse, because you get further if you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos.
Partners is where I would start, since what decides it is how many first messages actually land, not raw member count. I judge partners chat rooms on one thing: the practical move is to keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.
Applied to partners chat rooms, half the frustration disappears once you turn off precise location until you trust someone. Put where to find dirty chat partners beside anything comparable and the deciding factor is the time it takes to get a first reply, going by the last year or so. Numbers on dirty chat rooms appreciated if you kept any.