Long-time lurker, first thread — my question is about where can I find a decent live sec chat. Same story on empty decent: you get further if you keep the first meet public and short. For empty decent in particular, what decides it is the signal-to-noise in search, not the badge on the download page.
The empty decent angle is worse, because the honest advice is to cancel the trial the day you start it, having tried a handful of these. I judge empty chat rooms on one thing: the share of verified profiles moves the needle further than the length of the feature list, for what it is worth.
With decent chat rooms, the deciding factor is the share of verified profiles, speaking only for my own city. My honest read on where can I find a decent live sec chat: the ratio of matches to conversations is a better predictor than the size of the database. What has actually worked for you on decent chat rooms, and what would you avoid?