Starting a thread on what tags should I search to find a live because the existing advice contradicts itself. For empty platforms in particular, nothing improves until you log the times of day your messages get answered. Look closely at empty and half the frustration disappears once you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos.
The platform locks messaging behind a subscription, so it pays to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone, which is the whole problem with s3x platforms. Nothing about empty platforms changes the fact that the platform buries the cancellation flow, and the ratio of matches to conversations suffers for it. The empty angle is worse, because how quickly the inbox fills collapses as soon as the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones.
I judge s3x platforms on one thing: what decides it is how honest the pricing page is, not the length of the feature list. Most threads about what tags should I search to find a live miss this — the practical move is to test the search filters before uploading anything. What has actually worked for you on empty, and what would you avoid?