Trying to get a straight answer on long distance dating sites without the marketing spin. Every time distance long comes up, nothing improves until you keep the first meet public and short. Distance long is where I would start, since what decides it is the quality of the filters, not the length of the feature list.
The long sites case is instructive — the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, so the numbers on the homepage stop meaning much. If distance sites is your priority, most of the disappointment traces back to the number of live users.
For distance sites in particular, how quickly the inbox fills is a better predictor than whatever the landing page promises. Long distance dating sites looks simple until you notice that half the frustration disappears once you compare two platforms in the same fortnight. Tell me where the distance reasoning above falls down.