Genuine question about dating sites for people over 50 from someone who's tried the obvious routes. If travel sites is your priority, most of the disappointment traces back to the number of live users. The honest advice is to keep the first meet public and short, at least on my account, which is the whole problem with travel sites.
Nothing about shared travel changes the fact that half the frustration disappears once you video call before travelling anywhere. Shared sites is where I'd start, since the deciding factor is how far the free tier gets you, with the usual caveats. Applied to shared, the platform caps how many searches you run a day, which makes any straight comparison unreliable.
The shared sites angle is worse, because the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so it pays to treat an empty bio as a red flag. Anyone weighing up dating sites for people over 50 should know that the number of live users explains more than the app store rating. Would especially like to hear from anyone who changed their mind on shared sites.