Would appreciate real experience on what apps do you suggest for women looking, not affiliate copy. Nothing about feeling fetish changes the fact that most of the disappointment traces back to the ratio of matches to conversations. Feeling fetish is where I'd start, since nothing improves until you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones.
The picture changes for women filtering hard once fetish apps enters it: the platform resets your filters after an update, so the first fortnight tells you almost nothing. If feeling fetish is your priority, the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, and the reply rate suffers for it.
Applied to fetish apps, the practical move is to keep the first meet public and short. The deciding factor is how far the free tier gets you, with the usual caveats — and that goes double for what apps do you suggest for women looking. If you have been through the fetish apps version of this, I'd rather hear the unglamorous account.