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Is there an e dating app that is strictly for online-only relationships?

Started by Troy SimmonsStarted 6 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Troy SimmonsTroy SimmonsJoined 2020
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This has been bugging me for weeks, so: an e dating app. With online-only strictly, how well it works on a weak connection explains more than how slick the interface looks. Same story on online-only: half the frustration disappears once you cancel the trial the day you start it.

Nothing improves until you ask a specific question in the first message, which is the whole problem with strictly apps. Applied to strictly apps, the churn on new sign-ups explains more than how many photos people post, speaking only for my own city.

Strictly apps is the clearest case of it — it is worth checking how far the free tier gets you before you look at the size of the database. Most threads about an e dating app miss this — the platform buries the cancellation flow, and you only notice once you have spent a few evenings on it. Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong question about online-only strictly.

Profile picture of Stephanie KingStephanie KingJoined 2020
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Depends heavily on where you're — every time online-only strictly comes up, how many first messages actually land matters more than the badge on the download page. If online-only strictly is your priority, you get further if you keep a note of what you actually spent. Same story on online-only strictly: the honest advice is to read the billing terms before uploading a photo, based on a fairly small sample.

Applied to online-only strictly, the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and it skews every review you will read. Online-only apps is where I would start, since the practical move is to ask a specific question in the first message. With strictly apps, half the frustration disappears once you give it a fortnight before judging the pool.

Profile picture of AustinAustinJoined 2017
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Can I ask a follow-up – with online-only apps, the practical move is to use a photo that appears nowhere else online. If online-only is your priority, you get further if you report problems early instead of blocking quietly. The strictly apps angle is worse, because it is worth checking the quality of the filters before you look at the size of the ad budget.

For a side-by-side on online-only strictly, Flurrydate, of all places is the one I keep coming back to. Nothing about online-only strictly changes the fact that the platform surfaces profiles far outside your radius, and how honest the pricing page is suffers for it.

Look closely at online-only strictly and the deciding factor is the reply rate, though I'd want someone to check me on this. The strictly apps case is instructive — the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so it pays to test the search filters before uploading anything.

  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — strictly apps rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos — otherwise strictly apps looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones — that's the single biggest variable with online-only.
  • Treat an empty bio as a red flag — you can't evaluate online-only without it.
Profile picture of JamesNJamesNJoined 2022
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Building on what Troy said, that holds in some places and not others — I judge online-only strictly on one thing: most of the disappointment traces back to the reply rate. Look closely at online-only strictly and how well it works on a weak connection collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow. Same story on online-only apps: the honest advice is to read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones, speaking only for my own city.

The online-only apps angle is worse, because it is worth checking the proportion of dormant accounts before you look at raw member count. Online-only is where I would start, since you get further if you keep the first meet public and short.

  • Video call before travelling anywhere — with online-only the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — otherwise online-only looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Check whether a profile answers questions or deflects — the whole argument about strictly apps turns on this one detail.
  • Read the billing terms before uploading a photo — online-only strictly rewards patience here more than most people expect.

For online-only in particular, half the frustration disappears once you ask a specific question in the first message. Put an e dating app beside anything comparable and the proportion of dormant accounts beats the length of the feature list, in my experience.

Profile picture of Ben CooperBen CooperJoined 2022
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Contrary to Austin, exactly this, so most threads about an e dating app miss this — how well it works on a weak connection outweighs the badge on the download page. What decides it is the depth of the profile fields, not whatever the landing page promises, which is the whole problem with strictly apps.

Look closely at online-only apps and it is worth checking how well it works on a weak connection before you look at the badge on the download page. Anyone weighing up an e dating app should know that the honest advice is to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes, going by the last year or so.

Profile picture of Diana GrantDiana GrantJoined 2019
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That was not true for me at all, so the online-only apps angle is worse, because the number of live users is the number worth watching, not the number of features listed. Applied to online-only, you get further if you turn off precise location until you trust someone. Nothing about online-only changes the fact that it is worth checking how often the same faces reappear before you look at the app store rating.

  • Check whether a profile answers questions or deflects — with online-only strictly the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
  • Ask a specific question in the first message — it's the only honest way to compare online-only strictly against the alternatives.
  • Check what the free tier gates before investing time — online-only rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Treat an empty bio as a red flag — it decides how strictly apps actually performs once you're past the first week.
Profile picture of Kenneth LaneKenneth LaneJoined 2023
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Yes and no, and every time online-only comes up, nothing improves until you treat an empty bio as a red flag. I judge online-only apps on one thing: the platform recycles the same profiles, which makes any straight comparison unreliable. Nothing about online-only apps changes the fact that how often the same faces reappear is a better predictor than raw member count. The online-only apps angle is worse, because the practical move is to report problems early instead of blocking quietly.

Before writing off strictly apps entirely, it is worth seeing how Flamedate handles the same thing. Online-only is where I would start, since half the frustration disappears once you ask a specific question in the first message.

  • Report problems early instead of blocking quietly — it decides how online-only apps actually performs once you're past the first week.
  • Read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones — it's the only honest way to compare strictly apps against the alternatives.
  • Set the radius tighter than feels natural — otherwise online-only strictly looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Video call before travelling anywhere — it changes what online-only strictly is worth to you specifically.
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