I've done my own digging on the kasidie adult lifestyle community worth the vetting process and come up short. Look closely at kasidie vetting and the practical move is to set the radius tighter than feels natural. For kasidie vetting in particular, half the frustration disappears once you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.
I judge kasidie vetting on one thing: the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and the gap between sign-ups and active users suffers for it. Vetting platforms is the clearest case of it — how often the same faces reappear is a better predictor than the badge on the download page. Kasidie is where I would start, since the deciding factor is the signal-to-noise in search, at least on my account.
If kasidie vetting is your priority, the amount of recycled content collapses as soon as the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay. I would frame the kasidie adult lifestyle community worth the vetting process this way: it is worth checking how honest the pricing page is before you look at whatever the landing page promises. Would especially like to hear from anyone who changed their mind on vetting platforms.