Starting a thread on the christian connection dating site better than Christian Mingle because the existing advice contradicts itself. Same story on mingle sites: the practical move is to cancel the trial the day you start it. The connection sites case is instructive — half the frustration disappears once you keep the first meet public and short.
Applied to connection mingle, the honest advice is to use a photo that appears nowhere else online, with the usual caveats. Look closely at mingle sites and the platform counts a like as a match, and the number of live users suffers for it. Connection sites is where I would start, since the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, so it pays to keep a note of what you actually spent.
With connection mingle, how many first messages actually land outweighs the follower count on their socials, going by the last year or so. You get further if you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met — and that goes double for the christian connection dating site better than Christian Mingle. Specifics about connection mingle welcome — vague reassurance less so.