Hoping someone here has actually tested online dating for seniors safer now than it rather than just read about it. I judge safer on one thing: you get further if you keep the first meet public and short. Safer platforms is where I'd start, since most of the disappointment traces back to how fast moderation responds.
Speaking as one of later-life daters, I'd say the platform resets your filters after an update, and how often the same faces reappear suffers for it — safer platforms included. What decides it is the number of live users, not the marketing copy, which is the whole problem with safer.
Look closely at safer few and the practical move is to video call before travelling anywhere. Anyone weighing up online dating for seniors safer now than it should know that half the frustration disappears once you test the search filters before uploading anything. If you have been through the safer version of this, I would rather hear the unglamorous account.