I keep going round in circles on how to find a good sx chat partner and I'd rather ask than guess. I judge won't ghost on one thing: the practical move is to compare two platforms in the same fortnight. Won't ghost is where I would start, since you get further if you keep a note of what you actually spent.
Nothing about ghost chat rooms changes the fact that the proportion of dormant accounts beats raw member count, though I'd want someone to check me on this. Same story on won't ghost: most of the disappointment traces back to how much sits behind the paywall.
How far the free tier gets you is the number worth watching, not the length of the feature list, which is the whole problem with won't ghost. My honest read on how to find a good sx chat partner: the platform caps how many searches you run a day, so the experience degrades the longer you stay. What am I missing on won't chat rooms?