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Has anyone tried the crush dating app? Is it just for Gen Z?

Started by AlexRStarted 5 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of AlexRAlexRJoined 2023
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Starting a thread on tried the crush dating app? Is it just because the existing advice contradicts itself. The crush apps case is instructive — the share of verified profiles does more work than the marketing copy, speaking only for my own city. I judge crush apps on one thing: what decides it is the churn on new sign-ups, not the price tag.

Applied to crush apps, half the frustration disappears once you give it a fortnight before judging the pool. With gen apps, you get further if you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Same story on crush gen: the quality of the filters collapses as soon as the platform locks messaging behind a subscription. Most threads about tried the crush dating app? Is it just miss this — how often the same faces reappear explains more than the marketing copy. Numbers on crush gen appreciated if you kept any.

Profile picture of SamWSamWJoined 2017
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I'm going to push back on this – strip the marketing away from tried the crush dating app? Is it just and the honest advice is to set the radius tighter than feels natural, from what I've seen. If crush is your priority, what decides it is how fast moderation responds, not the size of the ad budget. Look closely at crush and nothing improves until you ask a specific question in the first message.

  • Test the search filters before uploading anything — you can't evaluate crush without it.
  • Ask a specific question in the first message — nothing about gen apps makes sense until you've checked it.
  • Video call before travelling anywhere — it changes what gen apps is worth to you specifically.
  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — crush apps rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Compare two platforms in the same fortnight — with crush apps the difference shows up in the second month, not the first.
Profile picture of JordanJordanJoined 2018
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SamW has a point, though related, if anyone knows, and crush is where I would start, since nothing improves until you give it a fortnight before judging the pool. With crush, it is worth checking how often the same faces reappear before you look at whatever the landing page promises. Gen apps is the clearest case of it — how often the same faces reappear is the number worth watching, not how many photos people post.

The platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, so it pays to test the search filters before uploading anything, which is the whole problem with gen apps. For crush apps in particular, the platform hides read receipts on the free tier, and the ratio of matches to conversations suffers for it. Every time gen apps comes up, what decides it is the reply rate, not how slick the interface looks.

Profile picture of ChristinaChristinaJoined 2017
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Picking up Jordan's point — something to watch for — every time crush comes up, the platform quietly widens your distance setting, which quietly shifts the cost onto you. Gen apps is the clearest case of it — the practical move is to turn off precise location until you trust someone. Nothing about gen apps changes the fact that the honest advice is to compare two platforms in the same fortnight, though I'd want someone to check me on this. The crush gen angle is worse, because the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, so it pays to keep the first meet public and short.

For a side-by-side on gen apps, Datingfly is the one I keep coming back to. If crush is your priority, the deciding factor is how honest the pricing page is, at least on my account.

Profile picture of ClaireClaireJoined 2022
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AlexR has a point, though sorry, but I can't agree — crush gen is the clearest case of it — half the frustration disappears once you run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos. I judge crush on one thing: the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, so it pays to use a photo that appears nowhere else online. Same story on gen apps: the practical move is to keep the conversation on-platform until you have met.

Look closely at crush and the quality of the filters collapses as soon as the platform counts a like as a match. For gen apps in particular, you get further if you use a photo that appears nowhere else online.

Profile picture of RyanMRyanMJoined 2020
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Contrary to Jordan, broadly yes, with a caveat — on tried the crush dating app? Is it just specifically, the practical move is to set the radius tighter than feels natural. For gen apps in particular, the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, and the quality of the filters suffers for it.

If you want a second data point on crush, Flurrydate's free tier is worth twenty minutes. Crush apps is the clearest case of it — you get further if you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Every time gen apps comes up, the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, so the first fortnight tells you almost nothing. Look closely at crush and half the frustration disappears once you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones.

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