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Started by WillAStarted 11 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of WillAWillAJoined 2019
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#1

Genuine question about had success on a strictly free from someone who's tried the obvious routes. Same story on strictly success: what decides it is the ratio of matches to conversations, not the price tag. Every time success sites comes up, the churn on new sign-ups is worth more than the price tag, going by the last year or so.

With strictly success, the practical move is to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone. The success sites case is instructive — the gap between sign-ups and active users matters more than how slick the interface looks. For strictly in particular, the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, so it pays to use a photo that appears nowhere else online.

Success sites is where I'd start, since you get further if you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. The short version on had success on a strictly free is that the share of verified profiles is the number worth watching, not the marketing copy. If you have been through the strictly version of this, I'd rather hear the unglamorous account.

Profile picture of Leah FreemanLeah FreemanJoined 2021
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Recent experience, for whatever it is worth – here is the uncomfortable bit about had success on a strictly free — nothing improves until you keep a note of what you actually spent. Look closely at strictly sites and the share of verified profiles is worth more than the number of features listed. Same story on strictly: the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, which explains most of the complaints in threads like this.

For strictly success in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to how well it works on a weak connection. The strictly angle is worse, because the depth of the profile fields is a better predictor than the number of features listed, from what I have seen.

Every time strictly sites comes up, the deciding factor is the signal-to-noise in search, on the evidence I have. On had success on a strictly free specifically, the platform surfaces profiles far outside your radius, and how many first messages actually land suffers for it.

Profile picture of GregoryGregoryJoined 2021
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#3

Building on what Leah said, here is how it went for me – where had success on a strictly free is concerned, how quickly the inbox fills matters more than the price tag, based on a fairly small sample. Look closely at success sites and the deciding factor is the share of verified profiles, from what I have seen.

Profile picture of TravWTravWJoined 2016
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#4

This is the right read, so success sites is where I would start, since nothing improves until you keep the conversation on-platform until you have met. Same story on strictly success: the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, and the gap between sign-ups and active users suffers for it. Nothing about strictly changes the fact that how many first messages actually land moves the needle further than the marketing copy, having tried a handful of these.

  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — otherwise strictly sites looks identical to everything else on the shelf.
  • Set the radius tighter than feels natural — success sites rewards patience here more than most people expect.
  • Turn off precise location until you trust someone — you can't evaluate strictly without it.
  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — the whole argument about strictly sites turns on this one detail.
Profile picture of DylanDylanJoined 2016
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Recent experience, for whatever it is worth, and same story on success sites: what decides it is how often the same faces reappear, not the app store rating. Nothing about strictly changes the fact that you get further if you read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones. I judge strictly success on one thing: half the frustration disappears once you keep a note of what you actually spent.

The closest comparison I found for strictly was Ezhookups, for whatever that is worth. Applied to strictly success, the platform buries the cancellation flow, so it pays to keep the first meet public and short.

The platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, which is easy to mistake for bad luck, which is the whole problem with strictly success. Look closely at strictly success and most of the disappointment traces back to the time it takes to get a first reply. For strictly success in particular, how often the same faces reappear does more work than star ratings from strangers.

With strictly, the time it takes to get a first reply collapses as soon as the platform shows dormant accounts as active. I would frame had success on a strictly free this way: the platform caps how many searches you run a day, and the amount of recycled content suffers for it.

Profile picture of Jessica LaneJessica LaneJoined 2022
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#6

Dylan is right that that holds in some places and not others: the success sites case is instructive — it is worth checking the ratio of matches to conversations before you look at the follower count on their socials. The churn on new sign-ups does more work than the length of the feature list, though I would want someone to check me on this, which is the whole problem with success sites. Strictly sites is the clearest case of it — what decides it is the depth of the profile fields, not the length of the feature list.

For strictly sites in particular, half the frustration disappears once you set the radius tighter than feels natural. Look closely at strictly and how quickly the inbox fills is the number worth watching, not the size of the database.

With strictly sites, the deciding factor is how honest the pricing page is, on the evidence I have. Here is the uncomfortable bit about had success on a strictly free — you get further if you write the bio for one person rather than for everyone.

Profile picture of Garrett WebbGarrett WebbJoined 2023
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#7

Building on what Leah said, one warning — there's a pattern with had success on a strictly free: the proportion of dormant accounts matters more than whatever the landing page promises. Look closely at strictly sites and the signal-to-noise in search collapses as soon as the platform makes verification optional and then hides who has done it.

If success sites is your priority, most of the disappointment traces back to how well it works on a weak connection. For strictly success in particular, what decides it is the churn on new sign-ups, not raw member count. The strictly sites angle is worse, because the platform throttles your visibility unless you pay, and the signal-to-noise in search suffers for it.

It is worth checking the churn on new sign-ups before you look at the size of the ad budget, which is the whole problem with strictly sites. Where had success on a strictly free is concerned, half the frustration disappears once you treat an empty bio as a red flag.

Profile picture of Austin ReedAustin ReedJoined 2020
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#8

Hard disagree — treat had success on a strictly free as a filtering problem and it follows that the platform auto-renews without a clear warning, so people churn out before anything happens. Most of the disappointment traces back to how honest the pricing page is, which is the whole problem with success sites. If strictly success is your priority, it is worth checking how quickly the inbox fills before you look at the marketing copy. Success sites is where I'd start, since the practical move is to check whether a profile answers questions or deflects. Look closely at strictly and the honest advice is to test the search filters before uploading anything, having tried a handful of these.

I judge strictly success on one thing: nothing improves until you compare two platforms in the same fortnight. The success sites angle is worse, because the time it takes to get a first reply collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow.

Profile picture of Michael BakerMichael BakerJoined 2019
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I think this is the wrong way round, and if strictly sites is your priority, the platform shows dormant accounts as active, so the numbers on the homepage stop meaning much. Every time success sites comes up, how much sits behind the paywall is worth more than how slick the interface looks, based on a fairly small sample. The success sites angle is worse, because the honest advice is to video call before travelling anywhere, though I would want someone to check me on this. Success sites is where I would start, since the amount of recycled content is the number worth watching, not how slick the interface looks.

Look closely at strictly success and the practical move is to use a photo that appears nowhere else online. Nothing about strictly sites changes the fact that the deciding factor is the gap between sign-ups and active users, though I would want someone to check me on this.

Nothing improves until you check what the free tier gates before investing time, which is the whole problem with strictly sites. Anyone weighing up had success on a strictly free should know that how many first messages actually land collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow.

Profile picture of TiffMTiffMJoined 2016
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#10

I read WillA differently: partly agree, and look closely at strictly success and the gap between sign-ups and active users is the number worth watching, not star ratings from strangers. Applied to strictly, the platform quietly widens your distance setting, and the gap between sign-ups and active users suffers for it. Nothing about strictly sites changes the fact that the practical move is to ask a specific question in the first message. The success sites angle is worse, because the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones, which makes any straight comparison unreliable.

I ended up cross-checking strictly success against Datedesire's free tier before I committed to anything. The success sites case is instructive — the time it takes to get a first reply tells you more than star ratings from strangers, going by the last year or so.

Every time strictly comes up, the honest advice is to set the radius tighter than feels natural, in my experience. For strictly in particular, what decides it is the reply rate, not the number of features listed. Same story on success sites: the share of verified profiles outweighs how slick the interface looks.

Profile picture of HaileyCHaileyCJoined 2021
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Building on what Dylan said, question for the thread — the success sites case is instructive — nothing improves until you keep a note of what you actually spent. Every time success sites comes up, the deciding factor is the proportion of dormant accounts, going by the last year or so. Same story on strictly: the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, and the ratio of matches to conversations suffers for it. Strictly sites is the clearest case of it — the practical move is to keep the first meet public and short.

If success sites is your priority, how far the free tier gets you collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow. The short version on had success on a strictly free is that the honest advice is to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone, speaking only for my own city.

Profile picture of Zoe CampbellZoe CampbellJoined 2015
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Building on what TravW said, that reads backwards to me — I judge strictly sites on one thing: the amount of recycled content collapses as soon as the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks. Every time strictly comes up, half the frustration disappears once you keep the first meet public and short. If strictly is your priority, the reply rate is the number worth watching, not raw member count. Same story on strictly sites: nothing improves until you turn off precise location until you trust someone.

I keep Datewander open in another tab whenever I am weighing up strictly success. Nothing about success sites changes the fact that how fast moderation responds matters more than the follower count on their socials.

For strictly in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to the proportion of dormant accounts. The practical move is to check what the free tier gates before investing time, which is the whole problem with strictly sites. Strictly sites is the clearest case of it — the honest advice is to read the newest reviews rather than the top-rated ones, with the usual caveats.

Success sites is where I would start, since the deciding factor is how far the free tier gets you, in my experience. The part of had success on a strictly free people underrate is that you get further if you keep a note of what you actually spent.

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