Do yahoo dating sites free groups still exist, or did they all move to Facebook?

Started by Amber Clark 21 Feb 2025 Dating & Hookups Community
Amber Clark
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Joined: 2021
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#1

So I've been down this rabbit hole for a while now and honestly I'm exhausted. Every site you sign up for has the same play—lure you in with "free" access, then lock everything interesting behind a premium wall. I've wasted more money than I care to admit trying to find something that actually delivers.

The trial cancellation thing is especially frustrating. You forget by one day and suddenly there's a charge on your card you didn't see coming. Has anyone actually gotten money back from these places? I filed a dispute with my bank once and it worked, but I'm not sure if that's the standard route.

Would love to hear from people who've found workarounds or platforms that are genuinely upfront about pricing. Drop your experiences below.

Hunter Scott
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#2

Speaking from experience on this one:

The key is managing expectations from the start. Free platforms exist on a spectrum from 'actually free' to 'free for 48 hours then you're locked out.' You need to read the fine print before investing time in a profile.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.

ZachP
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Joined: 2022
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#3

Been using various adult platforms since the Craigslist personals era so I've seen a lot of changes. Here's my current take:

  • Older, established platforms have larger user bases but more bots
  • Newer platforms have smaller but often more engaged communities
  • Location matters a lot—what works in major cities may be dead in smaller towns
  • The gender ratio varies wildly and directly affects your experience
  • Premium tiers are worth it when the free tier actually shows you real users

For what it's worth, I've been using Datelink recently and the experience has been noticeably better than the more well-known options. Less fake-feeling, responses actually happen.

Take the above as a starting point, not the final word. Your mileage may vary significantly.

Jade
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#4

Reading the terms of service before handing over payment info has saved me from recurring billing surprises more than once.

MarS
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#5

Did a deep dive into this a few months back, here's what I found:

Video verification before meeting anyone in person is non-negotiable at this point. Ten minutes on a live call tells you more than a week of texting.

A few others worth knowing about if you haven't come across them yet: turndate.site, datenest.site. Each has a different strength so it's worth checking which fits your situation.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.

Derek Sanders
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Joined: 2017
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#6

This is something I've thought about a lot. Let me lay out a more complete picture.

  • Mobile-first design is now the standard for good platforms
  • Video verification before meetups is the single best safety tool
  • Paywalls that let you see but not contact are a yellow flag
  • Check for recent activity on profiles before investing time
  • Report bots aggressively—good platforms act on reports quickly

Also worth having in your toolkit: datebie.online for one type of thing and datebie.online for another—they're not identical and knowing the difference saves you from frustration.

Hopefully some of this is useful. Happy to answer follow-ups.

Liam Carter
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Joined: 2020
Posts: 1385
#7

Speaking from experience on this one:

Profile quality matters more than most people think. A well-written bio with specific details about what you're looking for does better than a generic one even with worse photos.

A few others worth knowing about if you haven't come across them yet: datescout.site, datewander.site. Each has a different strength so it's worth checking which fits your situation.

Happy to answer questions if anyone wants more detail on any of these.

KyleG
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Joined: 2016
Posts: 4196
#8

Tried a few of these and honestly the landscape changes faster than anyone can keep up. What works one month might be dead the next.

Came across Datescout recently and it's been decent—worth a look.

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