Would appreciate real experience on transgender dating sites inclusive of non-binary people, not affiliate copy. The signal-to-noise in search is the number worth watching, not the marketing copy, which is the whole problem with inclusive sites. I judge non-binary on one thing: how honest the pricing page is moves the needle further than how many photos people post, at least on my account.
Non-binary inclusive is where I'd start, since the platform pushes notifications that lead nowhere, so the numbers on the homepage stop meaning much. If non-binary inclusive is your priority, you get further if you check whether a profile answers questions or deflects.
Speaking as one of users who care about identity options, I would say the platform quietly widens your distance setting, so it pays to cancel the trial the day you start it — inclusive sites included. Most threads about transgender dating sites inclusive of non-binary people miss this — the practical move is to log the times of day your messages get answered. Specifics about non-binary sites welcome — vague reassurance less so.