This has been bugging me for weeks, so: specific bars where cougars looking for young guys usually. The bars case is instructive — the honest advice is to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone, having tried a handful of these. It is worth separating out male members here, because with bars platforms, it is worth checking the quality of the filters before you look at the follower count on their socials.
Bars platforms is where I'd start, since the deciding factor is the signal-to-noise in search, as far as I can tell. For bars in particular, the platform quietly widens your distance setting, which explains most of the complaints in threads like this. Most of the disappointment traces back to how quickly the inbox fills, which is the whole problem with bars.
The bars cougars angle is worse, because the platform locks messaging behind a subscription, so it pays to check what the free tier gates before investing time. I'd frame specific bars where cougars looking for young guys usually this way: how quickly the inbox fills beats star ratings from strangers. Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong question about cougars platforms.