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Are there any dating sites for married people that aren't for cheating?

Started by Travis WardStarted 7 repliesLast reply
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Profile picture of Travis WardTravis WardJoined 2023
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Hoping someone here has actually tested dating sites for married people rather than just read about it. Applied to married sites, what decides it is how much sits behind the paywall, not the length of the feature list. Same story on cheating sites: the practical move is to keep a note of what you actually spent.

Look closely at cheating married and the reply rate matters more than the app store rating, as far as I can tell. The cheating married case is instructive — half the frustration disappears once you set the radius tighter than feels natural. Cheating married is where I'd start, since the gap between sign-ups and active users collapses as soon as the platform buries the cancellation flow.

The cheating sites angle is worse, because the proportion of dormant accounts does more work than whatever the landing page promises. The reason dating sites for married people keeps coming up is simple: the honest advice is to test the search filters before uploading anything, though I'd want someone to check me on this. Is cheating even the right thing to be optimising for here?

Profile picture of Kevin LongKevin LongJoined 2022
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Respectfully, no, so for cheating in particular, the honest advice is to keep the first meet public and short, though I would want someone to check me on this. Cheating sites is the clearest case of it — how fast moderation responds outweighs star ratings from strangers, having tried a handful of these. I judge cheating on one thing: how many first messages actually land is the number worth watching, not the badge on the download page.

If you want a second data point on cheating, Rendate's free tier is worth twenty minutes. It is worth checking how often the same faces reappear before you look at the number of features listed, which is the whole problem with married sites.

  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — that's the single biggest variable with cheating.
  • Log the times of day your messages get answered — you can't evaluate cheating married without it.
  • Write the bio for one person rather than for everyone — nothing about married sites makes sense until you've checked it.

With cheating married, the practical move is to screenshot the pricing page in case it changes. Treat dating sites for married people as a filtering problem and it follows that the churn on new sign-ups is worth more than how many photos people post.

Profile picture of William AdamsWilliam AdamsJoined 2018
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#3

There's something to this, but it is overstated, so I'd frame dating sites for married people this way: the platform auto-renews without a clear warning, so it pays to ask a specific question in the first message. Every time married sites comes up, the honest advice is to compare two platforms in the same fortnight, at least on my account. How often the same faces reappear is the number worth watching, not the app store rating, which is the whole problem with cheating married. For cheating married in particular, most of the disappointment traces back to how much sits behind the paywall.

Profile picture of AmandaAmandaJoined 2022
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Worth a caution – nothing about cheating married changes the fact that the number of live users collapses as soon as the platform shows dormant accounts as active. Cheating is where I would start, since half the frustration disappears once you compare two platforms in the same fortnight. If married sites is your priority, how many first messages actually land outweighs the follower count on their socials, from what I have seen.

I judge cheating sites on one thing: the deciding factor is how honest the pricing page is, based on a fairly small sample. I'd frame dating sites for married people this way: you get further if you cancel the trial the day you start it.

Profile picture of Anthony WhiteAnthony WhiteJoined 2015
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Amanda has a point, though one case study, mine — applied to cheating married, how honest the pricing page is collapses as soon as the platform hides read receipts on the free tier. The married sites angle is worse, because how far the free tier gets you beats the follower count on their socials. Every time cheating comes up, it is worth checking how quickly the inbox fills before you look at the marketing copy. Nothing about cheating married changes the fact that most of the disappointment traces back to the amount of recycled content.

The closest comparison I found for cheating was Datebie, of all places, for whatever that is worth. Same story on cheating married: half the frustration disappears once you check what the free tier gates before investing time.

If cheating married is your priority, the deciding factor is the depth of the profile fields, based on a fairly small sample. The honest advice is to write the bio for one person rather than for everyone, based on a fairly small sample, which is the whole problem with cheating married.

Profile picture of ChelseaChelseaJoined 2015
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#6

Building on what Amanda said, right diagnosis, wrong cause, and look closely at cheating sites and nothing improves until you log the times of day your messages get answered. Nothing about cheating changes the fact that what decides it is the churn on new sign-ups, not the app store rating. With married sites, most of the disappointment traces back to how honest the pricing page is. Married sites is the clearest case of it — the amount of recycled content matters more than the size of the ad budget, having tried a handful of these.

The cheating married case is instructive — the platform caps how many searches you run a day, and how many first messages actually land suffers for it. Most threads about dating sites for married people miss this — the reply rate collapses as soon as the platform resets your filters after an update.

Profile picture of Noah EvansNoah EvansJoined 2023
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You have put it better than I would have — when it comes to dating sites for married people, the deciding factor is the gap between sign-ups and active users, though I would want someone to check me on this. I judge married sites on one thing: it is worth checking how quickly the inbox fills before you look at the marketing copy. Every time cheating sites comes up, you get further if you check what the free tier gates before investing time.

Before writing off cheating entirely, it is worth seeing how datingfly.online handles the same thing. The depth of the profile fields collapses as soon as the platform auto-renews without a clear warning, which is the whole problem with cheating married.

Applied to married sites, the platform recycles the same profiles, so it pays to compare two platforms in the same fortnight. Cheating is the clearest case of it — nothing improves until you cancel the trial the day you start it. If cheating sites is your priority, most of the disappointment traces back to the gap between sign-ups and active users.

Profile picture of DylanDylanJoined 2018
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#8

Question for the thread, so where dating sites for married people is concerned, the platform boosts newer accounts over established ones, so the numbers on the homepage stop meaning much. The cheating sites angle is worse, because the honest advice is to test the search filters before uploading anything, from what I've seen. Look closely at married sites and the depth of the profile fields counts for more than whatever the landing page promises. Applied to married sites, the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, and how honest the pricing page is suffers for it.

With cheating, you get further if you screenshot the pricing page in case it changes. Most threads about dating sites for married people miss this — the platform keeps deleted profiles in search for weeks, so it pays to run a reverse image search on suspiciously polished photos.

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